In Marital Crisis

A marital crisis can throw the calmest person into a tailspin. Whether divorce is being threatened (by you or your spouse), an affair was recently discovered, something dramatic is happening in your lives (or the lives of people close to you) that is causing your marriage to struggle, you’re in the right place. If divorce [...]
Are You a Leaning In Husband?

Are You a Leaning In Husband?

EmailShare22Tweet22 Shares You have been told your marriage is on the rocks. Whether you agree or not, your wife has taken the fate of the marriage in her hands. You are swirling with a range of emotions, none of them pleasant. What to do right now to keep your sanity?  We talk at length about [...]
Are You a Leaning In Spouse?

Are You a Leaning In Spouse?

EmailShare37Tweet37 Shares Your marriage was plugging along until recently. Then came a conversation that changed everything. You learned that your spouse is seriously considering divorcing you. Your world has darkened. What’s going on and how do you salvage what you considered a good-enough marriage? We’ve invented a term for your situation: a leaning-in spouse. And [...]
What Defines Cheating?

What Defines Cheating?

EmailShareTweet Couples can get into muddy waters when it comes to one person feeling really “off” about their spouse’s “friendship” with someone who could become a romantic partner. This can lead to a lot of fights about what is cheating. Does it have to involve physical contact?  These debates don’t actually sooth anyone: the partner [...]