Seeking Outside Professional Support
If you're "on the brink" and not sure about about starting marriage counseling, we recommend you contact any of our Discernment Counselors on our website.
If you're are ready to start the work of repairing and rebuilding, we suggest any of our marriage counselors on our site.
If you're can't figure out whether to do either discernment counseling or marriage counseling, or move towards divorce, you could go alone to one of our discernment counselors. They have advanced training on divorce ambivalence. Be aware if you end up wanting to go to counseling as a couple, that person might not be able to serve in that role if he/she has seen you for enough sessions to create a strong one to one connection.