In Marital Crisis

A marital crisis can throw the calmest person into a tailspin.

Whether divorce is being threatened (by you or your spouse), an affair was recently discovered, something dramatic is happening in your lives (or the lives of people close to you) that is causing your marriage to struggle, you’re in the right place.

If divorce is on the table, you will want to visit our On The Brink article and probably seek out our specialized service called Discernment Counseling.

Right now two things are going on: the crisis and your reaction to it. Or you may have a second crisis on your hands because the original problem just ballooned into a second set of dramatic moves by you or your spouse. Our blog posts are here to help.  We have online information (we can’t replace good therapy but we do our best to offer what we’d give you in person) and we have a lot of expert marriage therapists ready to help you.

On the Brink

You’re in the throes of a decision about divorce, or your spouse is threatening divorce. What each of you do and say now is ...


Are You a Leaning In Husband?

You have been told your marriage is on the rocks.Whether you agree or not, your wife has taken the fate of the marriage in ...


Are You a Leaning In Spouse?

Your marriage was plugging along until recently.Then came a conversation that changed everything.You learned that your spouse is seriously considering divorcing you.Your world has ...


Is Your Stormy Marriage Suddenly Calm?

We’re writing to all those spouses out there with an unusual but important warning. Perhaps you have a friend in this boat, or your first ...


What Defines Cheating?

Couples can get into muddy waters when it comes to one person feeling really “off” about their spouse’s “friendship” with someone who could become ...


Is Your Wife Talking Divorce?

Is Your Wife Talking Divorce? CLICK HERE NOW The "D" word can rock a man to his core.Whether or not you knew your wife ...


Why Freaking Out Doesn’t Help

Is Your Wife Talking Divorce? CLICK HERE NOW The journey towards saving your marriage is not easy. We offer you solid support through the ...


A Marriage Isn't Over Until It’s Over: Research On Divorce Ambivalence

Considering Divorce vs. Attempting Couples Therapy? Click to Learn About Discernment Counseling It’s commonly believed that when people enter the legal divorce process, they ...


Who to Talk To – And Who Not To Talk To Around A Potential Divorce

Considering Divorce vs. Attempting Couples Therapy? Click to Learn About Discernment Counseling We've seen people in your shoes—a spouse announces a divorce—make a bunch ...


Discernment Counseling

Discernment Counseling is a specialized new way to work with what we call “mixed-agenda” couples—one leaning out of the marriage and not sure about ...


Hard Problems

Once upon a time when divorce was rare, most people were driven to divorce by one of the “Triple A” problems: Affairs, Addictions, or ...