Most people get more training to get a drivers license than to get a marriage license. After the honeymoon, couples often don't know how to deal with the inevitable conflicts with their spouse. The person who seemed to be your soul mate now disagrees with you and has intolerable habits. How you communicate during conflict will make or break your marriage. I love to share with couples that there is a better way than criticism, controlling, and defensiveness, which damage the relationship in the long run. You don't have to bottle up all the frustration to keep the peace either. I want to teach couples how to work through conflict in a way that builds intimacy rather than isolation.
the moments of breakthrough when each partner can appreciate where their spouse's position is coming from even if they disagree with them. This is the pathway to compromise and effective problem solving.
Christian couples, affair recovery, trauma, childhood abuse history, grief and loss, second marriages
Give me a call at 248-929-5354 for a complimentary 15-minute consultation. I'll answer your questions and share with you about how I can help.