because families are the center of all of our lives. If a couple has a secure bond and can feel close and safe with each other, they can do anything, solve any problem. If they have kids, they can be a parenting team and a secure base for themselves and their children.
those moments when the couple understands that they can have the close, safe and secure connection they have always wanted. Working with distressed couples even on the verge of divorce and seeing the love that they are fighting so hard to regain is oddly enough a wonderful place to be of help.
I work with many couples where one or both partners has a history of childhood neglect or abuse. Fear of being hurt or abandoned causes a lot of defensive responses which can be turned into moments of building trust and strengthening connection as there is more understanding of the longing for a secure connection that has always been there.
Please call me for a brief conversation of how I may be of help to you.