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People do better in pairs. I help people discover how to access the deep joy and belonging that comes from being in an intimate secure relationship, relationship that emphasizes fairness and sensitivity, and passion.
I enjoying being part of my clients' healing and seeing first hand how they find relief by making simple shifts in how they connect with their partner. Most couples don't understand the concept of how to "fight fair." As soon as they recognize that they can have strong feelings, but they don't have to be threatening to get their needs met, things shift immediately.
Porn addiction, infidelity, sexual incompatibility, lack of desire, issues around money, time, mess, kids, and the impact of technology on interpersonal life.
Initial phone call with both partners if possible to discover the headlines of what the issues are and to determine if I am the right therapist for them. We then schedule an initial session to assess the state of the relationship. In that first session I begin goal setting and introduce interventions that support those goals.