to have a better relationship with my wife Leslie, who is also a therapist. I continue to chose this work because I it suits me well. I can honestly say that I live what I teach. I also accept the reality that to do couples work means embracing the ongoing growth stretches that are required of me in my own marriage.
seeing people transform, connect more deeply and be surprised and delighted to discover new ways of being together that seemed impossible before.
I work with all kinds of couples including those who are unmarried, separating, wanting to explore their stalled out intimacy and sexuality, needing guidance to heal from an affair or are feeling stuck related to launching adult children and more... The work for me is about helping couples learn what it takes to stay engaged and connected while discussing their most loaded "issues".
Calling is best. I make myself available to speak with both members of a couple, either together or separately, to make an initial connection, answer questions about my work and respond to any questions or concerns about doing couples work.